Saturday, October 07, 2023

Sarado

 

Puno ang simbahan

Maraming deboto

Ngunit sarado ito


Bukas ang ilaw

Nagsisimba ang mga tao

Ngunit sarado ito


Bakit kamo?


Dahil sa bawat may pumasok, 

mula ulo hangggang paa,

sinusuri't sinusukat ng mga 

beteranong parokyano, 


Nagtatanong, naninimbang:

Bakit sya nandito? Bakit ganyan ang kanyang suot? Bakit sya ang napiling pinuno ng organisasyon?

Nagtatanong na wari mo'y sila lang ang may karapatan sa kaligtasan at pagmamahal ng Panginoon.

Sarado ang simbahan

Puno ito ng mga banal na aso at santong kabayo.

Sarado dahil matigas at nakasara ang puso at isip ng mga taong layko. 

Friday, June 02, 2017

Cup of Comfort

Sometimes a cup of coffee is better than a hug.

During weekends or non-working days I ask my daughter to make me a cup of coffee. This coffee is just your over-the-counter 3-in-1 San Mig Original coffee (my go-to instant coffee).

I'd wait a while before drinking, I like the temp to be hot but not burning, and I thank my daughter for the delicious cup of coffee, and also tell her time and again that I love the taste of the coffee when she makes it for me.

She tells me it's the taste of labor, the reason my coffee doesn't taste as good when I make it.

That could be true, in part. I think the coffee tastes better because she made it. Because someone who loves me took the time and care to make my coffee.

Thank you for my cup of comfort.
Thank you for my hug in a mug.

Thursday, June 01, 2017

Lost

One of those days when I feel slightly off and lost. Where am I? What am I doing? Why am I here?

TBC


Sunday, April 12, 2015

Time Marches On

March, another school year has ended. 

It seems like only yesterday the hubby and I were prepping Meg for preschool and now the little girl is not so little anymore. Entering the 4th grade next school year and ending the 3rd grade with an overnight Girl Scout activity, she shows us that she is a bigger and independent young lady.

Boy, I suddenly feel much, much older!

I am thankful that I am able to capture moments, even brief and fleeting ones, with my phone.

Photo apps are quite useful and I'm getting the hang of snapping photos in a flash. Some of the apps that I use are the phone's basic camera, Instagram for anything and everything under the sun, OpenSnap (resto related ones), and PhotoGrid.

 
These apps can make anyone feel like a pro! Well, ok maybe not a pro-pro, but these apps can help make photos a little bit more presentable, beautiful even. Beautiful and lasting photos. Beautiful and lasting memories.

Saturday, March 21, 2015

Traffic 2015

Traffic when travelling to and from Manila isn't new, however, this past month it has been ridiculously heavy.

The short stretch from Vito Cruz Taft Avenue to Buendia Taft Avenue, usually a worry free 10 minute bus ride, is now an hour (if you're lucky) long agony.

Why, you ask?

Para daw dumaloy ang ginhawa. Street work involving large round hollow pipe like things made of cement, half of the street clogged up with vehicles and the other half littered with machines and men at work.

Sigh.

Well, at least all these public works are happening before classes and the rainy season starts.

So if you're planning to pass by that area, make sure you have a strong bladder and brace yourself for some heavy traffic.

This and That

The year is 2015. The sky seems grayer than usual. Probably caused by the LPA. I get up with a start. Wait! Saturday, it's Saturday! Good. The lines between the days of the week have blurred. Night is day. Day is night. Oddly, the only thing that makes anything feel real is all in the 4 x 2 gadget made of steel and glass.

Ok, enough with the drama. It's just another lazy Saturday morning and according to my phone, and my snoring bed buddies, it's time to get up and prepare breakfast.

Morning ritual done, I head down stairs with a pillow, my phone, pocket wifi, and chargers.

After boiling some water, I do a bit of housework. Even with only the three of us, the house can get a bit disorderly. The water boils just in time and I squeeze in half a lemon into a cup of hot water. Once I've cooked up a storm, I settle down on the couch and check my social networks.

And then, it's four hours later.

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I'm embarrassed to say that this is how my Saturdays usually go. I still go about my duties as a wife and mother, but more often than not, I bond with my family with a screen (big or small) in front of us.

Most of the time, I don't have to step out of the house. My phone and the apps that I have has made almost everything a click/touch away. 

Whether it's to check my bank or purchase things that I want or need. Pizza, pasta, burgers or a salad? There's an app for that.

I don't buy newspapers anymore since the online versions are even more updated. To find out what's happening, I just check my Twitter feed. The world also seems smaller because I get to keep in touch with my loved ones who are miles or continents away, even if it is just via Facebook, Viber or FaceTime. Finding out what people I admire are up to is as easy as clicking ❤️ on their Instagram accounts.

Does a digital lifestyle necessarily mean a sedentary one? Not necessarily.

Although I don't get to go to the gym anymore, it isn't because I don't want to but because the gym I used to go to moved to a farther location - so I work out in the comfort of my own home with my workout playlist blaring.

Of course there are things that easily beat a social network or TV series catch up.

Fun time with my lovelies. Road trips. Concocting something in the kitchen. Window shopping. Coffee dates. Hand writing letters. Long luxurious baths. Using an old fashioned typewriter. Books. Human touch. 

I haven't fully embraced the digital lifestyle because I don't think I need to. Gadgets are there for a reason - to help make life easier for people. To innovate. To explore. For work. For play. But I live in the real world - with real people, real problems, real priorities. There may be a lot of hurt in the real world, but there's a lot of joy too.

I just have to keep reminding myself of that.

Monday, October 28, 2013

Eleksyon 2013

Vote buying... Tell-tale signs of political immaturity and poverty.


If your vote can be bought, you dont deserve your democratic right, what you deserve is the awful candidate who you helped cheat.


Can you imagine how much more that person will have to take/steal in order to make up for all the purchased votes?!


Wait... You dont honestly believe that someone who had the gall to cheat their way into elected positions would have an honorable bone in their body, do you?!? All those promises she made? Whoosh!!! Gone!


Congratulations, you didnt just pimp your vote... You sold your soul and your future. Goodluck with that.

Tuesday, August 06, 2013

Top Notch : Mercury Drug


I want to take this moment to just express my appreciation for the top notch service delivered by Mercury Drug's branch personnel. I was looking for an antibiotic that ended up being unavailable due to a supplier issue, and their branch personnel made an effort to look for Ilosone DS and Ilosone for me. 

I am especially thankful to the personnel of the following branches:

  • BF Resort Las Pinas
  • Talon Singko
  • ATC-Madrigal
  • ATC Zapote-Alabang
  • Manila Harrison Plaza
  • Malate San Andres
  • Malate Taft Estrada

For your patience, kindness, understanding, and for providing me with service with a smile that kept part of me from totally losing it... I am truly grateful. :)

A cup of comfort

Have been sick for the past 2 weeks - it was caused by a lot of things, but stress played a big part in it.

So this morning, as I alighted the bus, I made a conscious effort to make this day a bit brighter and made a bee line for Seattles Best Coffee.

Thank you for my free cup of coffee (August journal treat), for warming up this old bag of fat and bones, and for bringing a smile to my lips with my warm sweet salted caramel mocha.

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Trying Bloglovin' out :)

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Musings of a Weary Traveler


Today, I had to walk from the World Trade Center to Buendia-LRT station, I took a jeep from there only because I was conscious about the time.

I honestly don't mind walking (when wearing flats); the heat, pollution, uneven-constantly-being-repaired-roads, and the horde of commuters, stragglers, and strangers were the only things that bothered me.

I admit that discipline is an issue on the road - but to single out the "provincial" buses? That’s like using safety scissors to mow the lawn; it’ll get the job done, eventually, just not efficiently nor effectively.

Traffic and corruption is still rampant and aggravated by the unfinished public works, the unruly taxi, jeepney, kuliglig and pedicab drivers (yes, kuliglig and pedicabs on main thoroughfares), and don't get me started on the personal vehicles who insist on double- and triple-parking near and along the educational institutions in Manila.
Side comment: parking in Manila is a huge issue. Roads (inner or main) shouldn't be converted into parking spaces haphazardly by the barangays.
It seems the LGUs are making decisions without looking at the bigger picture. Yung kani-kanila lang, wala na silang pakialam sa iba dahil hindi naman nila ka-siyudad. Unfortunately, common folk like us cannot leave and take residence anywhere we please (e.g., move from San Juan to Manila), buy private vehicles, ride cabs regularly, transfer schools or jobs on a whim.

Maybe, these are just birth pains. Maybe things will work out.  Maybe they will see reason, or at least provide weary travelers with better options. On the bright side, I get my required number of steps done at the start of the day.

I’m just one small voice in a sea of taxpayers, regrettably the island is owned by the filthy and ridiculously rich.

Monday, July 22, 2013

Review | Reading Kingdom


Reading Kingdom commits to helping and providing online resources for kids to improve kids' reading skills. This follows their patented six skills method for reading success, which include sequencing, motor skills, phonics (phonemic awareness), meaning, grammar, and reading comprehension.

Reading Kingdom is great way for kids of all ages to learn reading the fun way. So much so that kids wont see reading as a chore, but as an activity that they will love. Reading Kingdom is also a very useful tool for both parents and educators as it not only gives them different means of teaching kids, it also keeps them up to date with technological trends, and makes them a part and partner of children's learning.

Although we just started using Reading Kingdom, I find the site useful and interesting. I am currently working on having it available on our other gadgets to make reading even more fun and easy for my little girl.

I give Reading Kingdom 2 thumbs up :)

I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Friday, July 19, 2013

Review | Nivea Deodorant Invisible Black & White Clear Spray


Confession of a part-time drama queen!

At first I was unsure about the Nivea Deodorant Invisible Black & White Clear Spray --- I used to use other deodorant sprays before and I always felt let down. But Nivea's Deodorant Clear Spray turned my frown upside down! It got me and I am HOOKED!


48HR protection? CHECK! Gentle and Alcohol free? CHECK!! Stain protection? CHECK!!! Cool and Clean Scent? Check! Check! CHECK!

Bring on the sun and the heat, bring on the pristine white and jet black clothes! Nivea's Deo Clear Spray has got my back (well, my pits actually), so color me confident :)

Goodbye, ordinary and sticky deo-creams...
Hello, Nivea Deodorant Invisible Black & White Clear Spray!

Review | Celeteque's Brightening Multi-Benefit BB Cream


Meet my new kikay-kit-buddy, Celeteque's BRIGHTENING Multi-benefit BB Cream!


I can honestly say that Celeteque's BRIGHTENING Multi-benefit BB Cream works wonders! It gave great coverage, moisturized and blended well, and my skin was able to absorb the cream so the finish looked quite natural.

The Multi-benefit BB Cream complemented my combination skin giving me what they promised - a "smooth and flawless look"! Plus, the lasting effect of Celeteque's BRIGHTENING Multi-benefit BB Cream makes transitioning from a day to evening look quite effortless.

What I personally loved the most? It made my pores look smaller! Practically invisible!

Parting words... Grab 1 TODAY! :D

Friday, June 28, 2013

Review | Crime & Passion by Chantel Rhondeau


My rating: 3 of 5 stars
Chantel Rhondeau’s romantic suspense novel Crime & Passion is a romantic story about Madeline and Donovan; the perils that unfold throughout the story leave you thinking if the two of them can make it as a couple or will they allow tragedy and conflict to rip them apart.

As the story reaches its climax, the reader already gets a sense of how the author will end it. Minor twists, but a predictably happy ending nonetheless.

I am not a great big fan of romance novels. Murder mysteries, science fiction, these are more my cup of tea. However, there was something about the story that urged me to finish it. Was it the plotline or was it my need for closure? Dun-dun-duuuun!

Honestly though, it is a good and easy read with interesting characters. I applaud Ms. Rhondeau for this book and would recommend it to anyone who enjoys this genre. 



I received one or more of the products mentioned above for free using Tomoson.com. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will be good for my readers.

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Thursday, June 06, 2013

Strip Tease Gone Wrong


When I received a copy of the comic strip, I thought I had missed a frame. I was waiting for the punch line, unfortunately it never came.

The issue on sexual preference and the Catholic Church’s stand is relevant, but Mr. Medina’s take on it was distasteful. I don’t understand why he needed to sully the reputation of St. Scholastica’s College and the Sisters. Calling them (a derogatory term for) lesbians was not only uncalled for, it was a slap in the face of all religious vocations.

St. Scholastica’s College is an enlightened institution that advances socially relevant issues. For the past 100+ years it has borne strong women – leaders, politicians, business women, artists, wives, and mothers, each treating the other with affection. We are, after all, sisters.

I earned my College degree from St. Scholastica’s College. I love this school because it taught me to see things not in black, white, or gray, but in a full spectrum of color. At St. Scholastica’s College, we learned that everyone had rights, that each right had consequences, and that we should all be held accountable for them. SSC taught us tolerance - and beyond tolerance St. Scholastica’s College taught us love. Love of justice, truth, humanity; love of stewardship and of service; love of Mother Nature; love of good old fashioned hard work; love of excellence, brilliance, and of quality; love for the sciences and the arts; loving our Faith; loving ourselves. At St. Scholastica’s College, discipline and respect is essential, and we carried all of these values and virtues with us even as we traded our whites and blues for other colors, uniforms, and caps.

So yes, I am offended by the comic strip. For those who don’t understand, allow me to point out why:
  • The generalization that all Christians are hypocrites;
  • That girls from exclusive Catholic schools are lesbians;
  • Implying that the Benedictine sisters are lesbians; and
  • The fact that Mr. Medina singled out St. Scholastica’s College.

I don’t see the point of the strip. Was it to advance the cause of the LGBT Community? (I think it did the opposite, actually). Was it to pick on SSC? Did it want SSC to discriminate, box, and label its students according to creed, color, sexual preference, height, and weight? Or was it a careless stab at the Catholic Church? Either way, it was a sloppy, poorly executed joke.

It bothers me that even with the flak Mr. Medina has received over that strip, there is no apology, no sign of remorse. Instead, he declares that he is a victim of a conspiracy.

Another thing that bothers me is that the Philippine Daily Inquirer’s only action on the matter was to pull out Mr. Medina’s comic strip (pending further investigation). An apology came, but arrived too late and was too weak to be noticed. Really, if they were all for accuracy, fairness and good taste, would it have been released in the first place? It was a re-published strip – doesn't the Editorial Board have any control over the contents of their publication? I don’t want heads to roll and I don’t want it to be a witch hunt; I just want fairness to prevail.

It upsets me that a lot of people don’t see the reason for the uproar. I am disheartened but not angry. These people are entitled to their own opinion, but my Alma Mater and our Scholastican community taught me better than that.

A few thoughts on a little perspective

You read about kids walking for miles, braving the heat and the rain, crossing bridges, mountains and rivers in order to get to their public schools where they spend hours in cramped classrooms (if any), with barely any suitable supplies or tools for instruction. You think about how these kids and their parents (if any) sacrifice daily so that they can get a meager education. No "pamasahe", no "baon". Just their thirst for knowledge and hope for a better future to fuel them through out their school days.

But then you see a picture of a flooded street posted by a guy on a social networking site and his comments on how he hates that he has to cross a flooded street from his high rise condo just to go to class... Or maybe read someone's scathing remarks online about her parents because they're forcing upon her an education she doesn't want...

Poles apart situations. One brings tears to my eyes, another makes me cringe.

Sometimes we need a little perspective to appreciate what we have. But it isn't just for us to feel relieved and realize how better off we are. Hopefully, we also realize that we need to share what we have and perform acts of kindness for those who need it more.  [V]

Wednesday, June 05, 2013

Review | Moringa-O2 Malunggay Herbal Soap


Happy to note that Moringa-O2 Malunggay Herbal Soap is gentle enough for my sensitive skin. I was able to get one from the Sample Room, and tried it on my face - which I normally wouldn't do with a bar soap - and was pleasantly surprised that I didn't react negatively to it. In fact, my face felt softer and smoother.

Scent wise - Moringa-O2 Malunggay Herbal Soap smells so clean. It is fragrant but not to the point of being irritating.

It lathers well - I was worried at first because most moisturizing soaps take forever to rinse off. Gladly, I was able to rinse it off quickly and thoroughly.

The immediate effect, as with most soaps, is that you feel clean; but unlike most anti-bacterial soaps there was no feeling of dryness after washing.

My take on it: I give it two thumbs up! Hmmm... Moringa-O2 is turning out to be one of my favorite brands.

Review | Moringa-O2 Malunggay Herbal Facial Toner

I am so happy I was able to get a sample of the Moringa-O2 Malunggay Herbal Facial Toner from Sample Room.


The Moringa-O2 Malunggay Herbal Facial Toner is an alcohol-free toner manufactured by Ardent World, Inc. After washing my face with the Moringa-O2 Malunggay Herbal Soap, I wiped my face with a cotton ball containing a few drops of the toner, and it was able to gently remove dirt that apparently was still on my face. I say gently because toners usually sting, and Moringa-O2's toner did not. I felt my face feel cooler, more relaxed, and "lighter". The word maginhawa comes to mind. It was like my face was able breathe.

To sum up the experience with Moringa-O2 Malunggay Herbal Facial Toner: 
- The product smells wonderfully clean 
- It feels good and does not sting at all 
- It cleanses gently even as it gets rid of all the icky dirt 
- It doesn't leave you with a sticky or red face 

An added bonus is that Moringa-O2 uses only natural ingredients. Trust me, adding this to your beauty regimen will leave you with skin that is cleaner and healthier